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The roommate money clause nobody writes into the lease (but should)

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A lease is a contract between tenants and a landlord. It says nothing about what happens between the tenants β€” who pays what share, what happens if someone moves out early, whose name the wifi is under. Most of the roommate disputes that end up ruining a friendship are about exactly the things the lease was never written to cover.

What actually belongs in a roommate agreement

  • The split itself β€” even, by room, or by income β€” written down, not assumed. See the piece on splitting utilities and groceries for the specifics.
  • What happens if someone leaves before the lease ends: do they keep paying their share until a replacement is found, or is there a notice period?
  • How the security deposit gets divided if it's returned, and who's on the hook if it isn't, especially if the damage wasn't shared.
  • What counts as a shared cost versus a personal one β€” cleaning supplies, yes; one person's specific streaming habit, no β€” decided before the first disagreement, not during it.

None of this needs a lawyer or a template that reads like a legal document. A shared note, agreed by everyone and dated, is enough to turn β€œI thought we said” into β€œwe actually wrote down.”

Read nextThe specific rule for utilities and the grocery run, which is where most of these agreements get tested first.Keep the agreement somewhere realPairly turns the split you agreed on into an actual running total everyone can see, so the agreement doesn't live only in a group chat nobody can search.

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