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Pairly vs Tricount

Trips end. The rent does not.

Tricount is built for a group and for a trip that ends. Rent and the internet do not end. How to tell which of the two jobs you actually have.

What Tricount is for

A shared ledger for a group — a trip, a party, a shared house. Everyone logs what they paid, it works out who owes whom, and the group settles. It has been owned by the Dutch bank bunq since 2022.

Tricount’s own site — worth checking anything here against the source.

Where Tricount is the better answer

  • Groups, and groups that change: six people on a trip, a festival, a house of five where a different set of people is involved in each cost.
  • One-off spending that needs settling once and then forgetting about, which is most of what a trip is.
  • Being free to use and widely enough installed in Europe that most people already have it.
  • Multiple currencies, which is a trip problem rather than a household one.

What Pairly does instead

  • Pairly starts from the month rather than the event. Rent, the internet, five subscriptions — the costs that arrive whether or not anybody remembers to log them.
  • A recurring cost is entered once and keeps counting. Nobody re-enters the rent on the first of every month.
  • It answers "what leaves our accounts this month, and what is left" before it answers "who owes whom".
  • It is built for the two or three people at one address, not for a group that assembles for one occasion.

Pick Tricount if

your shared money is mostly events — a trip, a group, a one-off — and what you need at the end is a balance that gets cleared.

Pick Pairly if

the same bills arrive every month at the same address, and the question that actually recurs is what they come to, not who is owed what.

What each costs

 Per yearBank connection
Pairly$47.88, whole householdNone
TricountSee their pricingNo

No price is quoted for Tricount here because this page has no way to keep one accurate. Theirs is on their site.

A ledger and a month are different shapes

A ledger is a list of events. Somebody paid for something, it gets logged, a balance moves, and eventually somebody transfers money and the balance goes back to zero. That is exactly right for a trip, because a trip ends and the balance is the whole point.

A household does not end. The rent lands again in thirty days whether or not anybody opened an app, and the useful question is not who is up and who is down — it is what the month costs and what is left after it. A ledger can be made to answer that, but only by somebody re-entering the same twelve costs every month, which is the part that stops happening around March.

Where the two overlap

Plenty of households genuinely need both, and there is no reason to pretend otherwise. If you live together and also take trips with a wider group, the trip is a Tricount and the month is not.

The mistake is only ever in one direction: using an event tool for a recurring cost quietly becomes a monthly chore, while using a month tool for a one-off holiday is just mildly heavier than it needed to be.

See your own month first

The demo is a full household you can change — no account, no card, and nothing to connect. It takes about two minutes to know whether this is the shape you wanted.

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